Hi! I’m Jack May, your chief editor, author, and the guy behind the idea and many sections on this site. I want to let you in a bit more into my life to get to know me better and understand why you should trust my opinion.

For many years, I worked as a communication coach with my clients and couples, specializing in overcoming relationship difficulties and finding partners. My job required a lot of traveling, and one day, I realized that I was in my 40s and wifeless. That’s how I started to actively use mail-order bride sites and explore the world of international relationships.

And you know, I’m a lucky guy, as I met my wife, Anastasia, this way. I don't want to get all lovey-dovey, but this Ukrainian woman changed my life and became the muse of this project. Our relationship—all the ups and downs of our long-distance relationship and immigrating to America—became my inspiration for what you can see here.

I’ve seen my clients and friends struggle in relationships and search for a suitable partner, and I wanted to help on a larger scale. I made it my mission to share my experiences so all of you who are curious or in a cross-cultural relationship can walk your path a bit easier.